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方然:美國(guó)孩子的7棵習(xí)慣樹(shù)(美式教育)
2016-01-20 10049

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 也許每個(gè)職場(chǎng)人士都知道《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - 高效能人士的7個(gè)習(xí)慣》這本書(shū),但也許你不知道,這本書(shū)的作者還專門針對(duì)年幼孩子和中小學(xué)生,寫過(guò)另外兩本著名的書(shū):《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》

  很多美國(guó)學(xué)校根據(jù)這兩本書(shū)的內(nèi)容,給學(xué)生們畫(huà)了一個(gè)叫 7棵習(xí)慣樹(shù) / The 7 Habits Tree -的海報(bào),作為孩子們品格教育的參照綱領(lǐng)。

  說(shuō)實(shí)話,在中國(guó),大多數(shù)人這方面的教育開(kāi)始得太晚了。當(dāng)真正有所領(lǐng)悟的時(shí)候,往往人生已為時(shí)已晚。而從小養(yǎng)成這些好習(xí)慣的孩子,未來(lái)的路多數(shù)會(huì)走得比較順暢和快樂(lè)。


所以,今天就介紹一下 The 7 Habits Tree,希望對(duì)大家有幫助。

這幅海報(bào)用一棵大樹(shù)來(lái)比喻孩子一生中要培養(yǎng)的好習(xí)慣。從樹(shù)根開(kāi)始從下往上,這7個(gè)習(xí)慣像一棵樹(shù)一樣逐漸長(zhǎng)成。

1Be proactive - you're in charge



積極主動(dòng),我的人生我負(fù)責(zé)


I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.


我對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé),做事積極主動(dòng)。我管理自己的行為、態(tài)度和情緒。我做了錯(cuò)事不怪別人。不用別人說(shuō)我也會(huì)去做正確的事情,哪怕沒(méi)有人在看。

2Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan



有目標(biāo),有計(jì)劃


I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.


做事前我會(huì)定計(jì)劃和目標(biāo)。我做有意義和帶來(lái)積極影響的事。我是班級(jí)里的重要一員,為學(xué)校事務(wù)做貢獻(xiàn)。我希望成為一個(gè)好公民。

3Put first things first - Work first, then play



做事分主次,先工作,后娛樂(lè)


I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.


我在重要的事情上花時(shí)間。不該做的事,我勇于說(shuō)不。我制定優(yōu)先級(jí),做日程表,執(zhí)行我的計(jì)劃。我對(duì)自己有紀(jì)律,做事井井有條。

4Think win-win - Everyone can win



從互贏角度考慮問(wèn)題,利己利人


I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.


我勇于爭(zhēng)取自己想要的,但是我同時(shí)也會(huì)考慮別人的需求。我在別人的情感銀行帳號(hào)里放下我的存款。有矛盾的時(shí)候,我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。

5Seek first to understand, then to be understood



先去理解別人,再求被人理解


I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.


我仔細(xì)聆聽(tīng)別人的主意和情感。我努力從他人角度去理解問(wèn)題。聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)話的時(shí)候我不插嘴、不打擾。我很有信心說(shuō)出我自己的主意。別人說(shuō)話的時(shí)候,我直視他的眼睛。

6Synergize - Together is better



協(xié)同-合作會(huì)更好


I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.


我珍重別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn),向他們學(xué)習(xí)。我和大家很好相處,即使他們和我很不一樣。我能有效地進(jìn)行團(tuán)隊(duì)合作,因?yàn)槲抑篮献鞅葐未颡?dú)斗能帶來(lái)更好的解決方案。我保持謙虛的精神。

7Sharpen the saw-Balance feels best



磨刀不誤砍柴工,尋求健康和平衡


I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.


我主意飲食、鍛煉和睡眠。我花時(shí)間和家人、朋友在一起。我在各種地方都能以各種方式學(xué)到很多東西-學(xué)習(xí)的地方可不止于學(xué)校。我用有意義的方式去幫助別人。

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